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“提倡者”人格
提倡者人格类型的人非常稀少，只有不到 1% 的人口属于这种类型，但他们对世界的贡献不容忽视。他们具有与生俱来的理想主义和道德感，但真正令他们与其他理想主义人格类型区分开来的是，他们果断决绝。他们不是懒散的空想家，而是能脚踏实地完成目标，留下深远的积极影响的人。他们把帮助他人作为生活的意义，虽然你会在营救活动和慈善工作中发现他们的身影，但他们的真正理想是从根本上解决问题，让人们一开始就不会陷入困境。
互帮互助
“提倡者”们常常集各种特质于一身：轻言细语却很有看法，为自己的信念不懈奋斗。他们坚决果断，但不会把精力用在一己私利上– 提倡者们行事风格有创造力，富有想象力，充满信念和感性，他们并非为了创造优势，而是建立平衡。平等主义和因果报应是对他们很有吸引力的思想，他们相信用爱和同情来感化暴君的心是帮助这个世界最好的方式。
每个人都需要做出选择，是走在富有创造力的利他主义之光中，还是具有破坏性的自私自利的黑暗中。
对提倡者人格类型的人来说，很容易与他人建立联系，他们的话语温暖感性有人情味，而非纯粹的逻辑与事实。他们的同事和朋友把他们当作安静的外向类型是不无道理的，但他们要知道“提倡者”们需要独处的时间来养精蓄锐，所以对他们的突然离开不要太过惊讶。“提倡者”们很在乎别人的感受，也希望被以同样的方式对待— 这有时需要给他们留几天独处的时间。
生命不息，奋斗不止
最重要的是，倡导者人格类型的人要记得照顾好自己。他们对信念的激情很可能超出自己所能承受的范围，一旦热情失控，他们很可能发现自己处于劳累，不健康和紧张的状态。这在“提倡者”们对抗冲突和批评的时候尤其明显，他们的感性迫使他们尽一切可能逃避那些人身攻击，但是当情况不可避免时，他们会用很不理性且无益的方式反抗。
在“提倡者”们看来，世界充满了不必要的不平等。没有任何其他类型比他们更适合发起一场或大或小的纠错运动。他们只需要记得，在他们关心这个世界的同时，别忘了关照一下自己。

Strengths & Weaknesses
Advocate (INFJ) Strengths
Creative – Advocate personalities enjoy finding the perfect solution for the people they care about. To do this, they draw on their vivid imagination and their strong sense of compassion. This can make them excellent counselors and advisors.
Insightful – Advocates typically strive to move past appearances and get to the heart of things. This can give them an almost uncanny ability to understand people’s true motivations, feelings, and needs.
Principled – People with the Advocate personality type tend to have deeply held beliefs, and their conviction often shines through when they speak or write about subjects that matter to them. Advocates can be compelling and inspiring communicators, with their idealism persuading even the hardest of skeptics.
Passionate – Advocates can pursue their ideals with a single-mindedness that may catch others off guard. These personalities rarely settle for “good enough,” and their willingness to disrupt the status quo may not please everyone. That said, Advocates’ passion for their chosen cause is a key aspect of their personality.
Altruistic – Advocates generally aim to use their strengths for the greater good – they rarely enjoy succeeding at other people’s expense. They tend to think about how their actions affect others, and their goal is to behave in a way that will help the people around them and make the world a better place.
Advocate (INFJ) Weaknesses
Sensitive to Criticism – When someone challenges their principles or values, Advocates may react strongly. People with this personality type can become defensive in the face of criticism and conflict, particularly when it comes to issues that are near to their hearts.
Reluctant to Open Up – Advocates value honesty, but they’re also private. They may find it difficult to open up and be vulnerable about their struggles. This might also be because they think they need to solve their problems on their own or don’t want to burden other people with their issues. When Advocates don’t ask for help, they may inadvertently hold themselves back or create distance in their relationships.
Perfectionistic – The Advocate personality type is all but defined by idealism. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation is not always possible. Advocates might find it difficult to appreciate their jobs, living situations, or relationships if they’re continually fixating on imperfections and wondering whether they should be looking for something better.
Avoiding the Ordinary – Advocate personalities tend to be motivated by a sense of having a greater purpose in life. They might consider it tedious or unnecessary to break their big visions into small, manageable steps. But they may be setting themselves up for frustration if they don’t turn their dreams into everyday routines and to-do lists. Without these specifics, their goals may never materialize.
Prone to Burnout – Advocates’ perfectionism and reserve may leave them with few options for letting off steam. People with this personality type can exhaust themselves if they don’t find a way to balance their drive to help others with necessary self-care and rest.

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