I don’t know how long can you know that there is something bigger for you, and yet you ignore that.
But I swore I have later, and I pushed that out so much. Have you ever heard a saying what a man can be he must to be? See, before she passed away, I thought I have all the time in the world. But then I was back to my neighborhood, and hung out with my friends. I thought life could be the same. But when she wasn’t there any more, this amazing thing happened to me transform the person I am. I have no longer have tolerance for the stagnation in my life.
But you what I do have? Two hands and two feet. I have a brain in my head and air in my lungs. And what else do I really need? Like what else you really need to begin today to lead the life you know you are might to lead. You in your heart what it is. You know and what’s more you need to change before you step into that. I stood up and I looked at them. And then next feeling which has been the biggest resource in my life sense, gratitude.
You can either pick one thing in life, resentment or gratitude. Get on the side, I promise you. I looked that moment, I realize that I mean haven’t my mother ever again. But I had these resources. I had myself and I could go forward.
I remembered that the feeling inside of me needing to change my life that voice in the back of my head. It took on the specific question. And the question was “What if?” You know that voice in your back of your head that says “What if?” What if I tried that much harder? What if I pushed one more time? “What if?” It’s the part of those your dreams.
I was coming in every single day and I used all the energy in my body to produce in to get things done. Because that vision that I have for myself, this bigger life that I was stepping into, that became my commitment instead of my excuses.
You know you were at the moment, you just see in yourself. There is empowering choice. There is disempowering choice. And you got to pick one. Here’s what holds us back from having what we want to have….And tragedy gives myself excuse to being in disempowered conversation and give up. And I knew that I could really make this choice, but I so want to give up. And I could have woken up my friends “Hey, guys. Let’s up. I should do anything.” And they go “Yeah! Let’s…” You know they will agree with me. You wanna be careful while you get your agreements in your life. I have lots of agreements around that.
But here’s difference. A disempowering conversation will do a couple of things. It will look for blame and it is concerns with the past. It will go “What happened before? Why didn’t it work out?” It will account what’s not there. That’s what disempowering conversation will do and it searches for blame. And empowering conversation is unconcerned with blame. It simply says “What’s next?” And it steps forward with the willing next to be responsible for what happens next. That’s difference between empowering and disempowering conversation.
What transforms a life? One empowering choice after the next overtime.
And you realize, really, there’s no difference between you and someone else. All you need to do is the work.
Sometimes when you don’t know what it is and you’re not supposed to be able to do, you will go right ahead to do it. And I did.
You don’t have to be stuck in the situation that you’re in. If there is something in your life that is holding you back, you have to identify what that is. Because I promise you there is a way to break and pass it.
There is some vision you have felt life. Where are you in your vision in your career? Where are you in your relationship? There’s something you have going on in your heart and you know in your heart there is so close to stepping into it. I want you to identify the voice inside yourself and begin to trust it. Ask yourself what is it that has been my way and hidden way to block that. Deep dig inside. Because you know all things my mother told me and my later this, later that. Life does not wait for anyone.
Life doesn’t wait for anyone and your life isn’t later. Your life is right now.
Ask yourself “what if?” Identify what’s in the way and realize that life doesn’t wait for anyone and your life is right now.

【我记得当时内心的感受要求我改变我的生活，有一个声音响在我的脑后，形成一个明确的问题。问题就是“如果…会怎样？”。你能体会脑后一直响着一个声音说“如果…会怎样”吗？如果我更努力的话、如果我再试一次会怎么样？“如果…”它成为你梦想的一部分。】

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